It's okay; personally, I've found that my time in Oregon so far has gone nowhere near how I thought it would!
This article has reminded me that I can't force anything to happen; when I don't, I learn the following:
- The supposed control we have over our lives is an illusion.
- To control your cow, give it a bigger pasture.
- You will have less to worry about.
- You might just end up surprised.
- You'll learn how things actually work, not the way you think they work.